Dear
Mark, Christina, Melissa, Robbie, Keith and Tiffany-
Some
comedian once said, "If it weren't for people, life would be easy." I
don't know if that is true, but I know that without people life would be
sad and boring. I believe that we are created for a relationship with
God and relationships with many people.
Here
are 10 thoughts about people. You can probably add many others:
Love
your neighbor as yourself.
Treat
people like people. The primary difference between good and bad people
relationships is the belief that people have a right to be treated with dignity
and respect.
Before
we can respect others we must have high self-respect. Each human being has
self-worth because God creates each of us. Many people try to earn
or prove self-worth by an improper emphasis on material possessions or work or
power. In reality, self-worth is a gift from birth.
Excited
people create success; they treat others with dignity and respect.
Get
along to get along. Don't blame others for your problems and don't ignore the
problems.
Many
people go through life complaining about being mistreated by
coworkers. Others complain about the unfairness of office politics
or frustration from being used by friends. The best way to counteract
these negative feelings is to build on your belief about your purpose for being
in your MarketPlace.
Speaking
is only half of the communication process. Successful communication
requires good listening skills.
It
is difficult to separate the message from the messenger.
Initial
impressions are important. Firsts are important: first hour, first day, first
month and first year all create the impression others have of you.
Some
people are afraid to make a decision while others are rambunctious and make the
wrong decision before examining all the facts. In today's fast-paced
world, good decision-making is a key competency for a successful business.
I think a whole section on toxic people could be added. Finding that balance of loving someone but creating boundaries.
ReplyDeleteAlso, first impressions are important but often times wrong. For example, after meeting Owen a teacher once told me, "People say he is so smart, but I just don't see it." She was judging him based on his social interactions. She wasn't able to see past that to see how smart and creative he is! Sometimes it takes time and several interactions to see someone's heart and potential.